DIY Weddings
Helping you feel peaceful, prepared, and present.
Creating Your Dream DIY Wedding (Without Losing Your Sanity)
Helping you feel peaceful, prepared, and present.
Creating Your Dream DIY Wedding (Without Losing Your Sanity)
Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting seasons of your life — but it can also feel overwhelming, especially when you’re trying to do it all yourself. The good news? A DIY wedding doesn’t have to mean doing everything alone. With a little creativity, smart planning, and the right support, you can create a meaningful, memorable day that truly reflects your love story.
Start With Your Vision, Not Pinterest
Before diving into color palettes and table settings, take a deep breath and picture what you actually want to feel on your wedding day. Is it cozy and intimate? Joyful and energetic? Simple and elegant?
Once you’re clear on the feeling you want, every detail — from the flowers to the playlist — can support that vision. Pinterest is wonderful for ideas, but it’s easy to get lost in comparison. Use it as inspiration, not imitation.
Prioritize What Matters Most
You don’t need to DIY everything. Choose 2–3 areas that mean the most to you — maybe it’s creating your own invitations, building your floral arrangements, or baking your favorite family recipe as wedding favors. For the rest, consider hiring help or asking friends with specific talents. You’ll save time, energy, and stress while still keeping your personal touch.
Plan Ahead, Then Let Go
DIY projects take longer than expected, so give yourself plenty of time. Start early, stay organized with checklists, and do one project at a time. The week of your wedding, hand everything off — whether that’s to your coordinator, a trusted friend, or your Bridal Buddy (that’s where I come in!). The goal is to shift from doing to being present.
Lean on Your Support System
Even the most independent bride needs a tribe. Invite your bridal party or family over for a “DIY Day” with snacks and music — you’ll create memories while checking things off your list. And if you find yourself needing emotional support or help staying grounded, that’s exactly what the Bridal Buddy service was designed for. You don’t have to manage it all alone. Discover how Courtney Jacobs creates stunning DIY wedding decorations ideas
Remember: Perfect Isn’t the Goal
Your wedding doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s to be beautiful. It just has to feel like you. A DIY wedding is all about putting heart before perfection — and that’s what makes it so special. When you look back, you’ll remember the laughter, the love, and the joy of creating something together, not whether every detail was flawless.
So take a breath, stay true to your vision, and give yourself permission to enjoy the process. After all, this day is about celebrating your love — not your to-do list.